Living in an interfaith, marriage can be hell. But i too am afraid to endure this. On your own dime. If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church. Not the end of the world. I expected to find this sisterhood of wives that would comfort, uplift, and laugh with one another. Hi ladies, I'm looking for some advice.
If I knew any better going into this relationship I would have stopped. We go for hikes with the dogs and bike rides but I feel so lonely and it breaks my heart every time I have to leave his house because I know that I won't see him for a week or more. Sometimes it's easy to forget all the wonderful times we had together before he got into med school. When you said that the doctor spouse sacrifices for their patients and their family sacrifices for the doctor's career, it really described my situation. But those days may be gone. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed. As a Christian one's values won't allow an affair on the lonely spouse' part either - but that probably won't bug you by the sounds of it.
She's likely openly telling her family that it's okay he's not Mormon because she's going to get him baptized. I know residency is particularly bad, but what about when he finishes that. Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom. RUN like the wind.
I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. Being a doctor's wife is difficult, demanding, and lonely. We get along exceptionally well and I really like him though, so I can see this going somewhere. He ended up cheating with one of the nurses and his wife left him. I was in your same position years ago. It was the second time I watched it, too.