I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. This has all put an incredibly strain on our 2-year marriage we have been together for a total of almsot 8 years. Whenever you see 1, color it in yellow. I told her that I want to only be friends. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years.
Otherwise, happiness can be found in any relationship. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them. Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up. There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness. I believe in temple marriage, and in the importance of those covenants. Best of luck, and God bless. I feel to say, if you hear this, Amy, in time, it will all come round right.
As more and more people marry out of their faith, the subject of interfaith marriage will become more and more important. I have only been dating my boyfriend for just over 3 months,and he has just started his 3rd year in med school. Her brain has been wired from birth by said cult. It was totally eye-opening. To them, everyone is either TBM, hasn't learned the truth yet, or has some kind of personal failing laziness, desire to sin, allowed themself to be deceived by satan, etc.