Observe the suttle loony behavior of the family during thanksgiving. The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior. Mine was in California, back in the 70s. We strive to improve each other.
As a budding feminist, I left the church in my teens. I feel very sad sometimes but I try to stay strong. My brother is in medical school, and many of my friends are in their clerkship or already doing their residencies. Full respect and care. The important thing is whether or not your spouse will support you in your endevours to live your religion. Take the missionary lessons, read the Book of Mormon and the Bible. I feel unwanted most of the time but I know he tries to make time. It wouldn't be as often as from someone with an ordinary job and schedule, but it would happen. Disney gives them the fantasy where they can easily achieve a standard of perfection with low risk. But what if your girlfriend is Mormon, but not active in the Church.