They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. We are fighting and he has no patience which I understand but its really hard to accept for me because I feel like I need more from him out of the relationship. Mormonism has a lay clergy, so everyone serves in the Church. Listen, you are in a bad situation and it just has not come to a head yet. He is passionately loving - and he is "there" for me always. Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves. I visit him every month, we managed to go on weekend trips when he's off and he's spend all his vacay time with me and his family.
If all you are looking for is some non-serious dates to have a good time, you should be fine. Every school events, social gathering, especially weekend calls is making me sad. Nevertheless, I rarely have any trouble with setting some time aside to stay in touch with family, friends, and any woman I might be dating, as well. The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. Is it wrong not to. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc. We will see what life has in stock for me and this brilliant cardiologist. If you really like this girl, might want to show her this. Talk about issues with Jehovah's Witnesses etc.
Because service is important in the Mormon faith, she may be interested in doing something that will help others, like helping someone clean their yard. My 2 younger children are entering middle school soon. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it.
But I don't want to put any more demands on his time, which is why I thought maybe asking for quick phone call on his drive home might help. Props to people who do. I have heard for ten years that my spouse is "second fiddle.