I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. When I talk to him about this he seems to agree that he doesn't like the person he's becoming and doesn't look forward to a career in medicine, but says he can't leave medicine. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. One red flag I have for Mormon girls is if they drink coffee. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. She might not realize how important it is to compromise. But I believe, doctor or not, a relationship is all about supporting one another and making sacrifices. Disease and Condition Articles. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox.
As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us. It had been going on for years. That's why I was hoping to hear from someone dating or married to a doctor. I married a recent convert girl в she may as well have been a nonmember в and less than a year later we got an annulment. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. Thanks for the help.
Chances are you can't though. So I am getting myself ready. And even then it will put Huge stress on it and on you for the rest of your life. But I've met those 3 dates to engagement couples. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end. Oh your fiance works in the medicine field, too.
Do you really love him, honey. And sometimes I think we equate easiness with happiness. Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon. Always taking care of our two daughters single handedly is. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. If I'm serving tables at a restaurant, I'm going to tell my boss that she's got to cover for me because there's an emergency and I'm leaving.