I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. Obviously don't make any commitments further in the relationship because you do not want to be married into an insane orthodox LDS family because it will cause alot of troubles. Among Mormons, 25 is practically an old maid. You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can. Most of the doctors I know are either way older and in private practices where they can set their schedules a bit OR they're my age and still going crazy with residency hours. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. Joanna has written a good answer here.
It kills me that we are now diminished to a mere statistic. She will try to convert you. And even longer when you add that one-year fellowship to the end of it.
I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough. And the thought of being a 'single mom' if we have kids. Or, I might be in class.
The church essays that address that linked at www. How the Book of Abraham was translated from Egyptian scrolls. Marriage is simply not an option to me there. All the other stuffв is crap. Mormons follow the law of Chastity; they believe that the intimate act of lovemaking must be saved for after marriage. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon.