A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first. When out on a date with a Mormon guy or girl, be very decent, courteous, and well-mannered. That's cool and everything until you realize that they're an archeologist or a missionary pilot and are in uncivilized areas with no modern methods of communication. It just plain sucks. We will see what life has in stock for me and this brilliant cardiologist. Sorry if I gave that impression. Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. Other lazy Mormon girls turn feminist, many thousands of them. After his mission he lost faith on everything for some reasons.
Medicine is not an easy lifestyle for anyone, and sometimes the only thing that gets me through is knowing that at the end of the day or twoI get to come home to my loving husband. It doesn't help to know that he is terrible at being alone. Sometimes I complain to my kids and to my husband. How do I help sustain and grow our communication under the circumstance. If he is luck to be off call during the weekend, I would sleep most of the weekends away to make up the sleep deprivation.
I married a non-member over 20 years ago. Listen, you are in a bad situation and it just has not come to a head yet. Great payback for my support during residency and multiple moves.
She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. I know that sounds cold but if you train under stress for that many years and become a member of a masochistic not the sexual context fraternity like that of surgical residents, then you more easily shut out anything that might break down those walls. Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot. I dated many LDS guys before him. And their feelings about your marriage are their businessвnot yours. She views patriarchy as a quality of God. Life will chuck all sorts of bouncers at you. Until you can believe someone else's beliefs are reasonable, you will not be able to treat them with the respect they deserve. Thanks so much for the links.