His whole family joined after he did. It has to do with their character. Here are my thoughts as someone who grew up with a non-mormon father and as someone who married a non-mormon girl. And there are questions and lessons that dual-faith couples face that zero-faith or single-faith households do not.
Yes you are all correct it's lonely and rewarding at the same time But we can continue to make it work. If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. For men, this will likely come after completing your mission trip, so in your early 20s at the earliest.
Righteous love does conquer all but in some cases it takes a lot longer than we are willing to wait. I wanted to be able to fully share my faith with my spouse, but this expectation was now up in the air. So, I'm in a relationship with a 3rd year med student and we are trying to find a date to get married. He can relate to me and we can relate to each other which makes us strong to begin with. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. It's what I agnostic atheist exmo do with my girlfriend reasonable TBM. Give them a hour to de-stress once they get home.
By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. Now those are not the problems in my head anymore, whats in my head is how arewe goin to deal with this, ive told her sometimes u wont have anytime for me nor for your kids if we decide to have kids you wont be at the holidays nothing like that and she is always tryin to see everything positive and tells me dont worry ill schedule myself, and im like baby you will not be able to schedule urself your life would be in a hospital. She still lives in her hometown though. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future.