Will he be happy knowing that you are giving up something of incredible importance to you. My surgeon husband of 12 years just made himself a "free agent" when he cheated on me and our three kids with a gal 12 years his junior. How will your spouse feel about that in 20 years. How do you maintain a healthy balance with relationships and work when your partner has a more demanding profession than you. And depending on his views of the Sabbath, you will probably get the tug of war on Sundays. This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. Notify me of new posts via email. Reading has become difficult, because I have trouble focusing. Interesting to read the concerns of so many doctor's wives.
I had some idea of his life at the time of wedding, but this is tough. Everything was fantastic, his family adored me, and he told me that he is going to marry me. She views patriarchy as a quality of God. Apr 4, 0. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects.
I could go on, but this should give you the idea. Honestly, it isn't her fault. I agree with Rachel- this is not what I signed up for. Even if she does, you'll be the reason in her family's eyes. It almost feels like a single parent family. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all.
If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. He also said that emergency medicine is highly competitive. Probably, not Mount Meadows level, but be prepared to have to apologize on her behalf a lot.