I know how much it hurts, and it makes you feel unwanted. She will try to convert you. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. The fact that she's planning to go on a mission should help.
She might be everything you want, but in her eyes you are not what she has been dreaming of her whole life. Juggle them with a working wife, a housewife with children and things become difficult. And, whether she knows it or not she probably does know it but is in denialshe probably sees you as her ticket out of Oldmaidsville. Ultimately we broke up. I grew up in a very strict Mormon home and dated only Mormon men until I met my now husband. I suggest to run as it will not get better. As an atheist with Buddhist undertones who married a non-practicing, god-believing Mormon at the height of his questioning, I find this so interesting to me. Reading some of the post are making scared of what to expect. Think about what you want in a relationship.
The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. So there's THAT to look forward to. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future. We try to make this place a little better than we found it. My husband did his best to do the same though a medical career makes it a challenge. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides.
I decided to do the mormon thing and just not think about it too much right now. I eventually found out that she did not pass the exams and have requested that I don't contact her again. You are too young to deal with this. Courses were developed especially for physicians by business health experts and experienced physicians. I can only hope that my ex realizes and learns from the mistake he made in letting me go. Since moving and starting residency, he has done a complete - no resemblance to the man I fell in love with. Thanks for the Blog. I feel to say, if you hear this, Amy, in time, it will all come round right.