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Our sex and relationship columnist Dr Pam Spurr regularly brings you must-know info for the bedroom and beyond. Follow Dr Pam on Twitter drpamspurr. While many people want to try new things in the bedroom, often they can be afraid to ask. Here's what men could secretly be after. There are plenty of bedroom-beliefs about what men want. And they might want to coax you into anal sex having seen so much of it in porn.
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By Tracey Cox for MailOnline. You may think you've learned a thing or two about what the opposite sex enjoys in the bedroom. But have you ever stopped to think about what they don't like? According to Femail's sex and relationships expert Tracey Cox, there's a whole host of things women do during sex that men can't stand - and vice versa. Read on to find out if you're guilty of committing a sexual faux pas at a crucial moment
Men, whom many women have been taught would rather have sex than breathe oxygen, do have preferences when it comes to positions. And get this: Many even favor quality over quantity. Don't believe us? These men came forward to reveal their favorite sex moves — and most proved tamer than you might imagine. Heavy amounts of kissing, heavy petting. Both excessively sucking on random parts of the body, slow tongue movements across random body parts, etc. Generally, the licking progresses into sucking, but a few early sucks never hurt anyone. My girlfriend tells me there's something about sideways sex that targets her clit in the right way — it doesn't hurt that she comes a lot quicker this way. It makes penetration feel deeper for us both , especially if her butt is hanging a little bit off the bed. I can see and touch everything, including her breasts and clit.