Read that entire speech and you will see a slew of racist statements. Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. Everything we do when we are together seems to be pre-planned and must be executed just so, right down to unexpectedly turning off the lights at And I can relate to the walking on eggshells feeling when they are home. In the Garden of Eden, Eve may have introduced sin into the world, but ultimately her actions worked out for good because it allowed all of us to be born and tested in this telestial state. Wow i am dating a dr and love him so much but i wonder if love is enough. Go miserably explore a foreign country by myself wishing my husband was with me. Most of us were suckled on that teat too. Love Notes for Him. Much good luck, and keep us in the loop.
Secondly, if he's still in residency, he has to prevail and give it his all. I've been in a similar situation before. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life.
Many men have begun leaving the Church in their early twenties as the mission has become more important. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. If you don't want to give up, then don't. I had a business, 3 engineering degrees, numerous patents, and was working countless hours a week to try and keep a roof over our heads, make sure she was fed, the house was clean, bills were paid, etc.
Ma'am I really do thank you for being very blunt and quite honest in your writing about your life. While that is the case sometimes, it Is much more of an exception than a rule. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. This is right for me and for us.