It has to do with their character. Do you work through parent teacher conferences and the entire soccer season. Is there even any sex at all in this fantasy. Living in an interfaith, marriage can be hell.
It gives people a sense of purpose, while pressuring them to be 'good' by their book. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. I tried to date Mormon women, honestly. He is doing 2nd year Residency. When I think about it now it sounds absolutely mental and there is no way I would do it again. You are commenting using your Facebook account. And if you do belong to a ward full of cretins, you must do everyone a favor and just ignore them until they go extinct. But I also know that He loves us so much that He would never take away our ability to choose for ourselves. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. We often wonder how we will pay our bills sometimes.
If she is still Mormon and you are not, she will always secretly hope that you convert, just like you will always secretly hope she leaves the church. Maybe more convinced than you are. There are a million fish in the sea and it makes no sense to choose one with whom you are not religiously compatible. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. This brings me to the thorniest bit: If your wife is Mormon, your kids will be expected to be Mormon. He had the night shift last night so today was his day off and he also has research to do.
I appreciate your honest, and I really like the way you phrased things, particularly this sentence: Thank you for your comments. Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush. Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. We are best friends, and you will always have time for your best friend. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. I recently left my family, friends and state to move across the country to be with my best friend and boyfriend during his residency. We started dating again 5 years later and have been in a very serious relationship for the last 1. They might be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. Things I have and continue to think about. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you.