IF she becomes an Atheist free thinker like you then consider keeping her. I'm engaged to a med student we met in undergrad 2 years ago and I've watched him go from playful college kid to serious med student. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me. We decided early on that having only one working parent was critical -- I am always the one that flexes to his schedule like it or notand staying home with our child enables me to do that. I would not have wanted to be dismissed as crazy and unworthy of attention when I was still a member, because it wouldn't have been true. A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first. What a fascinating response as always.
There will be sacrifices but I am hopeful. Mind control is not child's play, and the Mormon church has real people's blood on their hands for the despicable damage they've caused. While we have a good marriage but he has no idea how lonely I am for my him. I'd suggest the essays. He would be leaving his career, something he has worked so hard for and his passion for his family. I maintain my own life and embrace my SO with open arms when I do see him, which comes to about once a week usually dinner after 8: I get up with him at 4 A. You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen.
Do you think I need to have some sort of commitment from him before I can make that decision. Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. December 10, at 3: February 6, at December 11, at 5: December 11, at 3: December 10, at 5: December 10, at 6: December 17, at 4: December 11, at 8: December 12, at 4: December 11, at December 11, at 1: Here is a list of reasons I feel apply to my situation в some of them in retrospect: December 11, at 9: January 2, at December 12, at 1: December 12, at 5: Dear Ladies, Wonderful insight here from Joanna and all the rest. If yes, do you promise to not proselytize to me and let me drink a simple cup of coffee in my own home. Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. That being sais, just be honest.
Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have. I've been in a similar situation before. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds. We still went on dates when we could, but it became less and less often. As these are probably the two most important things to you, it will most likely, be a very difficult decisionвfollow your heart and the spirit. In areas with lots of single Mormons of dating and marriageable age, the Church has established singles wards.
