I got married to a Mormon woman. Without going into too much personal detail, I received a very real, strong prompting that I should marry this girl. It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him. He did 5 years of residency and a one year fellowship and has been in practice for nearly 7 years. Have lots of sex. However, I did not expect my role in marriage to end up what it has become.
He is a great man and I know he will always put his family first but this is such a hard decision. I can only say that I was that girl, 10 years ago. Observe the suttle loony behavior of the family during thanksgiving. Mormons are also taught "Families can be together forever. I try to visit for a couple hours here and there.
If He can answer prayers to help you find missing car keys, He surely can help you understand who it is that you should marry. I don't think we are going to end up being friends but I'll get over that. And the longer you see her you won't be getting out of anything soon either. So basically we were lies to for years. Mormon girls are taught that they have a divine nature. Interesting to read the concerns of so many doctor's wives. I'm not complaining about the sex, but sometimes it prevents me from getting to know him better when we don't share any other bonding activities or get a chance to really talk.
What's NOT to like about being the wife of a medical doctor. If you do end up having sexual relations, she will feel guilty, and it will affect your relationship, you can count on that. A forum for ex-mormons and others who have been affected by mormonism to share news, commentary, and comedy about the Mormon church. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. I then asked some questions about some of the essays, and her answer to everything is "because god. I'm engaged to a junior intern and we're supposed to get married soon. Be gentle with them and yourself. This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question. It seems like a minor point, but I have noticed that every Mormon girl who disobeys the Mormon direction to avoid coffee has something majorly wrong with her.