It's an issue I just have to live with if I want to be with him, and I do, so I live with it. I want to make this relationship work so bad, but I feel like he will never understand. Look up all the threads of people who are dealing with their true believing spouses -- the guilt, the silence, the bad communication, the hostage-taking. Maybe you do, too. I know from my own experience that God has the answers and that He speaks to those individuals who humbly seek Him. It is always a nice idea to plan for your date in advance. Good luck to you. But there will still be a lag of several days where I feel like I'm checking my phone constantly waiting to hear from him.
If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down. I would bet this is exactly what she is thinking about you, which is why she is willing to have a relationship with you aren't a Mormon. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size. He is my soul mate and we love each other very much.
I will keep you posted and thanks again for your thoughtful response I really appreciate it. I love how this applies to ALL marriages. We have moved four times to 3 different states to accommodate his career, and had 3 children along the way.
While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. So far I have been sad most of the time. Notify me of new posts via email. Made many attempts to do things together, but always get excuses of being tired or not interested. Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. In high demand" I would be out the door. You do not want hear in jeans if you are planning to eat at a fancy restaurant. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew. I don't think anyone here intended a dismissal of the girl as a human being by stating such. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness.